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Tom and Barbara Spears

d. March 2, 2017

Tommie and Barbara Spears

After nearly 60 years of marriage Barbara Ann Spears, 77, and Tommie "Tom" Edward Spears, 79, of Kamiah Idaho passed away peacefully within six weeks of each other. Barbara passed March 2, 2017 in Providence Sacred Heart Medical Center Spokane Washington and memorial services were held at the Trenary Funeral Home in Kooskia Idaho on March 4, 2017. Tom Spears passed April 14, 2017 at their home and memorial services are being held at the Masonic Lodge in Kamiah Idaho on April 22, 2017 at 10 AM. The memorial will include Masonic and Military Honors services.

Barbara was born on July 6, 1939 in Gary, Indiana, a daughter of the late Robert W. Marsh and Melba M. Marsh. Her sisters are Rebecca Jane Starr (husband John) of Crown Point, Indiana and Mary Ellen Reich (husband Bob) of Lakewood Ranch, Florida. She attended public schools in Crown Point, Indiana and graduated in 1957.

She was united in marriage to Tom on December 31, 1957 at First Methodist Church in Hobart Indiana. Interesting fact to note, Barbara at 18 years old was allowed to marry without parents' permission according to Indiana State Law. However, Tom at 20 years old and in the Navy had to have his mother's permission according to the same law. Barbara spent several years on the West coast while her husband, Tommie, was a career Navy man. After his retirement, they moved to Idaho where they built a cabin on a mountain above the Clearwater River gorge outside of Kamiah, Idaho.

Barbara was a doer and a very organized one! Barbara was an avid reader. She also enjoyed crocheting and knitting, and riding her horses. Barbara fostered pets and found homes for them (often rehabilitating them before finding them their new home). Barbara was Queen Bee of the Hattitudes Red Hatter Society of Kamiah, a group of mature women who wear red hats and purple clothes that do not go. She and Tom were a member of the local Chamber of Commerce. For 10 years she worked for CASA at the Orofino Hospital helping troubled youth. Later she became one of their board members continuing to advocate for the abused and mistreated. At one time, she owned the local Kamiah Flower Shop. She and Tom also ran the annual Kamiah Barbeque Days for many years.

A website was created in her honor, if you her and would like to say some kind words please visit

Tom was born in Gary Indiana, a son of the late Samuel P. Spears and Martha M. Spears. His brother is Richard L. Spears (wife Marjorie) of Valparaiso, Indiana, and sister Marcia S. La Bounty (husband John) of Westville, Indiana. He spent 22 years in the Navy and was deployed three times to Vietnam. Tom started his Navy career as enlisted, later became a Warrant Officer, finally received a commission, and retired as a Lieutenant. On a visit to a friend's home in Orofino he fell in love with Idaho and decided that's where he wanted to retire. He and his son built a log home on a hill overlooking the Clearwater River.

Tom kept busy by fighting fires, substitute teaching, roofing, bowling, and being an auctioneer. He was a member of the Big Hatters of Kamiah. He also kept busy by battling the noxious weeds on his property especially the dreaded YELLOW STAR THISTLE. Tom was know for perfect is culinary skills and made a wicked omelet.

Grateful for having shared in Tom and Barbara Spears live are their 1 child, 4 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren. Daughter Deborah A. Clark (husband Dan) of Kamiah, Idaho. Grandchildren: Robert E. Milchak (wife Joella) of Las Vegas, NV. Sean M. Diffin (wife Ashlee) of Orofino, ID. Rachael M. Wallace of Shaw AFB, SC and Tommie J.W. Crepeau of Shaw AFB, SC. Great grandchildren: Thatcher, Triston, and Wyatt Milchak, Rilee and Jace Diffin, and Jamison Wallace. Along with many loving nieces and nephews across the country.

Tom and Barbara Spears were preceded in death by their parents and son Michael Spears.

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